Early snow

October 22nd, 2007

Salt Lake has the craziest weather… We've been hovering around 70 degrees for most of October and it has been SWEET watching the leaves turn colors. However, as I mentioned in an earlier post, our weekends have been MISERABLE. Well, finally… we had some "after proof" of the bad weekend. Yup, this time the snow stuck around for a half a day… just long enough for Avery and Isaac to build a snowman and have a snowball fight. Notice, how warm they are dressed for the occasion. It's supposed to hit 70 again this week.

Avery and his snow creation Isaac and his snow creation

Halloween Early…

October 22nd, 2007

Because we are taking a long trip to Branson Missouri to see SIX over Halloween, we decided to carve our pumpkins early this year (while the weather was holding). Sage roasted the seeds and made an awesome snack that I chowed on all the next day. Did I mention I LOVE my new camera? 

Isaac with a knife? Having some ice cream there Ethan?

Avery digging in Owen enjoyed the guts

So I did a little reading about how to take good pictures with my new spiffy camera… I then grabbed my tripod, shoved some Christmas lights in the pumpkins butts and took these stellar photos!

Avery’s Cyclops and Owens “Triangle Eyes” Dad’s masterpieceIsaac’s “Round Eyes” and Ethan’s “Scar Face”

 Maya’s first punkinThe Service Pumpkin Patch

My new camera…

October 22nd, 2007

So I finally broke down and bought a REAL camera. I didn't know what I was missing until my friend Myke kept bugging me about it… and I relented. I'm glad I did! It has opened up a WHOLE new world of possibilities… and I don't even know how to use it entirely yet! The first day I got it, we went as a family to see Real Salt Lake play against the LA Galaxy. Beckham was supposed to be there, but alas, he was injured. So I threw on the 300mm lens and went nutz shooting pictures of Landon Donovan instead. Without a freakin' clue, I was able to grab a few gems from the cheap seats…

Donovan chasing Kyle Beckerman Landon lining up for a free kick

AYSO Fall Soccer - 2007

October 22nd, 2007

What a CRAZY soccer season that was!

We had BEAUTIFUL weather the whole fall season (September - October) EXCEPT on Saturdays. 5 Saturdays in a row, we had to deal with wind, rain, freezing cold and even SNOW. Every other day of the week had GREAT weather. We started to wonder if we were being punished. Anyway, the crap weather made it hard to take photos, but I did get a few gems as you can see below.

This year is going to be special because I have been chosen to coach our league's under12 boys "summer select" team in HAWAII next July! I've never been to Hawaii… but now that I can live vicariously through my children, I'll get to go EVERYWHERE! :)

I was able to take these with my new spiffy Canon Rebel XT DSLR camera. Taking pictures will never be the same… Love the Michael Jordan tongues.

Double Vision - Isaac and Owen Owen going for goal Double trouble - part 2

Ethan became my stud goalie on the u10 boys team Ethan is serious about his goal keepingHow about them undies?

 Ethan is pretty good on the field as well…Avery’s not too shabby on the field himself… And Avery is my best goalie for u12

Sage’s trip to Phoenix

October 22nd, 2007

So every once in awhile I have to send my wife away to regain her sanity. She usually goes to Phoenix to see her mother… sometimes she even runs into my brothers and sister while down there.

This trip was special because her cousin Carla was down visiting from Washington - so they all got together and did whatever female cousins do when they have new babies and nothing better to do. Here's a few shots she took while visiting.

Maya and cousin Delana (sp?) - 1 month a part I always thought Carla and Sage looked like sisters instead of cousins…Carla, Kyle, Grandpa Gene Wilcox and Mark (Carla’s Husband)

While Sage was in Phoenix, my sister's daughter McKenzie had her 1-yr-old birthday bash, Hawaiian style. Looks like mass chaos to me, but I guess everyone had a good time. My dad enjoyed holding Maya during the party.

Bad focus… the Service folk at McKenzie’s party Grandpa Service and Maya chillin at the partyMaya at the Hawaiian party…

Sage and Maya at the church carnivalSage even spent a night at the Ruff's house, where she went on a "date" with my friend Myke while his wife ran a booth at her church's carnival. Looks like good times! 

Just because…

October 22nd, 2007

Natalie… riding the “short bus”.… All of my sister-in-law's friends and sisters have all posted a glamorous shot of her…

here's another. :)

Service Twins goto “Real School” (Kindergarten)

October 21st, 2007

Inside Steve’s knee.My twins are SIX years old. Can you believe that? It seems like only yesterday I had my knee surgery… and a week late the twins were born (a month early). Yes, I was SUPPOSED to have a month to recover from my ACL replacement. Instead, I had to take my brace off a day early and had to drive myself to get my stitches removed. Good times! I dug up these crazy pictures of the inside of my knee… just because they are cool. :)

Twins with attitude (big Kindergarteners)Oh yeah… the twins. They turned six and are now in kindergarten. Yes, they are going to be the "old ones" throughout their school careers… yup, they will be the big men on campus. Don't they look like they already have the attitude?

We took them to the ol' "Classic Skating" fun center for their birthday. They had a great time skating and bouncing around in the giant blow-up "castles". We had a "bunch" of kids there, including the Millican clan and second cousins. It was the twins first "big" party… because it is the year they start kindergarten. Their next "big" party will be when they turn 8 and get baptized.

Part of the party fun put them inside a tornado machine with fake money… does it look like they had a good time?

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Beth Ann brought Parker and Nate to the party, and Allison brought Sawyer. As you can see, Allison has been assimilated into the Serviceclan quite nicely. :) The other photo is of the twins and their best buds, Nathan and Grayson. My friend William George Shalz brought his kids Jaxxin and Shazaya… I think that's how you spell their names. :)

Allison striking classic pose. Twins and their budsSawyer is the cutest little pistol you’ll ever meet

And then there is the birthday song…

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Bear Lake with the Millicans

October 21st, 2007

We had a great trip in the middle of August with our good friends, the Millicans. Both families pulled our camp trailers to the Bear Lake KOA camp and spent a few days at the lake. We played at the beach most of the time, but we also rented a boat and some toys. I was even able to water ski for the first time in about 15 years… and I got up on a slalom ski on my first try! Woo Hoo! Here are some shots of the festivities.

Avery, did you just poop out a sand castle? Isaac got himself buried in the sand.Ethan… star of “Baywatch… The Next Generation”

 I think Sage enjoyed herself a little too much.The twins really liked to dig in the sand.Maya camped for the first time like she’d been doing it for years…

The only rotten part of the trip was the fact that I had to work at night in the camp trailer using the KOA wireless internet connection. Thank goodness for laptops and wireless access points! 

Did I mention we took Toby… and he loved to chase the seagulls? :)

He almost got a few of them!

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Playing catch up - as usual…

October 21st, 2007

Great Grandma Cogdill with MayaOkay, so I think it has been about a month and a half since I updated my blog with anything interesting. That's what happens when you are so busy you can't see straight. Here's a few photos of Maya to catch you up-to-date. Back in August, we went to visit Grandma Cogdill, who immediately snatched Maya and held her the entire visit. Grandma loves those babies.

Maya has this nifty (goofy) chair that allows her to sit up and see the world by giving her support where her head-bobbly self doesn't have any yet. She loves to watch TV… don't know if she likes the shows, or just the pretty lights and sounds. :)

Maya and her tv chair Maya and her tv chair

The next few posts will all be "catch-up"posts as well…

Utah’s DCFS and Attorney General Strike Again!

September 5th, 2007

Okay, so you already know I have ZERO love for the messed up Foster Care system Utah pretends is a "National Model" for everyone to follow. Well, this article in today's Salt Lake Tribune pretty much sums it all up… and is another reason we have signed up to do short term shelter care instead long term foster parenting.

You ever heard the phrase: "The head of the fish stinks first" - This describes the head of DCFS… Read on.


Children removed from homes going to shelters because of a legal snafu

By Kirsten Stewart
The Salt Lake Tribune

Article Last Updated: 09/04/2007 11:28:42 PM MDT

Utah's misinterpretation of a federal law meant to protect abused children may be causing them more harm.

Children who are removed from their homes by the Utah Division of Children and Family Services (DCFS) are being parked in temporary shelters - sometimes for six weeks, or longer - when they could be staying with a family member, like a grandparent, or a friend of the family.

The practice grew from the Adam Walsh Child Protection And Safety Act of 2006, which requires that all adoptive or foster parents, including a child's kin, undergo thorough criminal screenings conducted by the FBI.
   
Nowhere does the law say background checks must be completed before children are placed, but that's how Utah understood it. The resulting practice has caused a backlog at shelters and could have dire consequences for thousands of foster children, says a child welfare reform advocate.

"To deprive a child of a loving grandparent for seven weeks for no reason other than agency foul-ups is bureaucratic child abuse at its worst," said Richard Wexler, executive director of the National Coalition for Child Protection Reform in Alexandria, Va. "I know of no other jurisdiction in the country that interpreted the law this way."

Duane Betournay, DCFS director, acknowledged, ''In hindsight, I can say, we may have gone too far."

But there's little Betournay can do to immediately correct the mistake.

Based on legal advice from the Utah Attorney General's Office and legislative counsel, Betournay swayed legislators last year to change Utah law to comply with the agency's interpretation of the Adam Walsh Act.

Betournay said he will ask lawmakers to correct the statute during the 2008 Legislative session, which begins in January. To help shelters with their backlog in the meantime, Betournay spent about $200,000 purchasing machines that help process fingerprints to hasten criminal screenings.

"Instead of waiting six to eight weeks, we can get them back in less than 72 hours, as long as it's a clear background," said Betournay.

But a staff member at a children's shelter in Salt Lake County, who asked not to be named for fear of losing her job, said Tuesday that criminal screenings are still taking up to eight weeks.
   
The same staffer said some caseworkers have discouraged use of another stopgap - moving children out of the shelter to short-term foster homes until a kinship placement is approved.

Doing so would increase Utah's average number of foster placements, a measure used to gauge states' child welfare performance.

Citing the Adam Walsh act, Utah also told shelters to prohibit overnight visits with relatives, unless a court orders it, or the family member is a licensed foster parent.

Wexler calls the "forced institutionalization" of Utah's foster children an "outrage."

Youth in shelters "are being treated like inmates for whom visitation is a privilege instead of children for whom the chance to visit loved ones should be a right," he said.

Wexler, who first alerted Utah officials to the misstep five months ago, suspects Utah's rush to change the law signals a hostility toward kinship placements.

Utah acted despite a January 2007 directive from the federal Administration for Children and Families, explicitly telling states Adam Walsh does not mandate background checks prior to placement.

The administration cautioned, however, states could lose federal funding for foster placements absent a background check.

At risk are tens of millions of dollars, said Betournay. "We were going on the best information we had."

Utah has among the nation's lowest rates of kinship placements, though it outperforms other states when it comes to placing foster children for adoption.

But Betournay denies Utah is biased against kinship, and said the state is working to improve its track record. Further, he said Utah joined other states in lobbying against the Adam Walsh Act.

A decade of research has shown kinship placements are more stable and less disruptive for children than placing them with strangers. In Utah, 56 percent of kinship placements fail, an unusual result that has prodded DCFS to better train families, said Betournay.

Still, Wexler wishes there were more urgency to correct Utah law.

"For a young child, being torn from everyone they know and love, even if that removal is necessary, feels like a kidnapping, and can be just as emotionally devastating," said Wexler. "Placing a child with a loving relative is the best way to cushion that blow."

Hurt by the law
  
* What happened: Congress passed the Adam Walsh Child Protection And Safety Act of 2006, which requires that all adoptive or foster parents, including a child's kin, undergo a thorough background check by the FBI.
* Fallout: Utah misunderstood the law to mean background checks must be done even before temporarily placing an abused child in the home of a grandparent or other relative. Utah law was changed to reflect this.
* What's next: Child welfare officials have promised to correct state law at the next legislative session in January. Meanwhile, thousands of kids are stuck in shelters.